WAITING FOR A REACTION

We strive for recognition. Without it, we feel ignored and alone. It is this fear of failure not to be seen that pushes us to amplify our own responses so that we are not overlooked. Our efforts are designed to either show others our worth or there to prove to ourselves that we do have a purpose. Our desire to prove our worthiness to our worst critique ourselves outweighs any need to appease those who are our peers because we are unforgiving to ourselves but overly fair to our peers. The negative side of us tries to put fear in us to convince us that we are not worthy so that it can control us by keeping our motivations at bay. Without any motivation in our lives, we will remain where we lie, not striving for more. It is human nature that encourages us to chase the things that we want in life and not to give up at the first sign of a problem. Fear uses the fear of failure as a deterrent so that we never try, but not trying is the biggest form of failure. There is peace of mind that comes to you when you know that you have lived a life without regret and knowing that you put your heart and soul into your endeavours is enough to save you the qualms if you didn't trust yourself enough to even try. So try and keep on trying until you have nothing left in you because at least you will know that you have given it your best.