KNOW THYSELF

We may have the ability to limit the amount of bad things that happen in our lives, but no amount of planning ahead can prevent all the bad things from happening to us. Murphy's Law claims that if anything can go wrong, then the chances are that it will go wrong. This is why when the shit eventually hits the fan, how we tend to deal with the tough times is what determines the type of person that we have grown into. It is those moulding experiences that teachers us who we really are because it is only through those harsh times that we face that pushes us to our limits and at the same time strengthens us for the ongoing struggles that life deals us. That is why we are the only ones who could fully understand our weaknesses and our strengths because we have learned through our lifes struggles to work out who we are and what is best for us. Throughout our life we are told what we should be doing instead of what we have chosen to do because people believe that they know what is the better path for us even though their views are tainted by their own personal interests. So if you want to give advice to guide someone during troublesome times make it relevant to the persons interests not your own otherwise if they choose to follow your advice be aware you'll hear the end of it when the shit hits the fan.