TRUE MOTIVATIONS

The reasons why some people strive to reach the top of their chosen career varies from individual to individual. Whether their motivations are true in that their decisions don't revolve around doing something just so that they can receive a reward or that the alternative is fitting where their main goal is to strive to increase their stature and their bank account which will only increase their happiness to a level of what they can afford to buy. Making decisions in the name of passion means that you don't have to force yourself to compromise your integrity but if you find that your decisions have forced you to adjust your moral line to suit your curent goal just to make more money even at the expense of others then you are much more likely to find yourself alone wondering why people have distanced themselves from you. Alot of money might help promote their stature and brings opportunities to them but at what cost?. Do what you love with thoughtfulness and dont lose sight of how you want to be looked upon rather than faking your interests and goals just because you think the pathway to more money would get you closer to what you need. Remember happiness is in your essence of fulfilment and achievement of your true goals will bring you closer than you pretending everything else is less important than making the big bucks.

A GOOD IDEA IN THEORY

Good ideas aren't valued until you have proven their validity by making them into a successful idea. People aren't interested in theory or concepts because they themselves cant visualise the idea to be a success. It is up to those with the ideas alone to make their concept work with only little resources at their disposal. What could be achieved if investors believed in someones idea will never be discovered because the ones that may have the resources don't want to part with it on what could be a risky business adventure. So many good ideas get left behind in the dark never to see the light of day because nobody wants to give the money that could get the idea to the masses. If you manage to get your business idea to perform then some big business will choose to invest money into it once the one who conjured up the concept does the hard work and proves that the momentum will continue if more money was invested. So believing that you have a good idea is easy getting someone to believe in your idea is the hard thing. Ideas will come and go it is up to you to stick by your idea even if no one else believes in it.

MANY FRIENDS FEW ALLIES

So many of us claim to have many friends but how many of those friends will have your back when it counts. Friends aren't usually put in tough positions where they can stand up for us when someone decides to taint our reputation. So we safely assume that all our friends will stand up for us even if it means someone they know will shut them down. In our social groups we have people that are acquaintances who we can enjoy superficial chatting, friends who we  like their company enough to enjoy spending some time with and very few really reliable good friends that we can comfortably say that they are with us not only during the easy good times but also during the difficult tough times. Friends who choose to spend time with when your not always showing your best side understand that life can knock you down and you aren't always going to react the right way but having a good friend to help you through the darkness is part of what makes them a good friend. The Friends that are only by your side when you are entertaining to them will ditch you when your not. So choose your friends wisely otherwise they will disappear the moment the shit hits the fan.

THE COMMUNITY MADE ME DO IT

Alot of what is wrong with the world can be blamed on the divided communities that focus on the differences of people rather than what makes us similar. When someone creates a negative affect on the community it is up to us to remain unified to keep the balance within the community, that is why if you don't speak up for what you stand for and believe in when it is your moment to speak then your chance is lost and so is your voice. In the end, most people don't regret what they've done in their life but majority of them regret what they didn't do, so if you would rather feel that you have done whatever was in your power to do and you dont agree with the direction your community is going then be brave and speak up rather than taking the cowards way out by saying nothing. How you choose to respond as a community member determines what is considered an acceptable level of divergence for the community, it is in our decision-making that conditions the community by letting others know this is either a tolerable action or this will never happen again because this is intolerable. When people complain that there is nothing on TV to watch it's because there is too many people watching the so called rubbish shows so the rubbish keeps on running, if you dont like what you are seeing then don't sit down, stand up and speak. When someone complains that the world is corrupt it's because money talks and people listen, if you don't like to play by their rules then play by your own make the effort and choose to take pride in yourself and dont let money be your soul motivator. Being admirable is what you should stand for not being a sell out, a sell out of your morals and standards will only lead you ashtray. if you want to be popular then be popular for doing what is the right thing for you and your community.

 

PUT YOUR BEST FACE ON

Putting on too many faces when dealing with different people may seem wrong because you are not showing people your true self, but there is so much more to us than one unique perspective. We all have different types of social interactions that help us determine whether someone is a close friend that we open up to, or they are just an acquaintance that we socialise with on occasion. When we haven't clicked enough with an acquaintance to promote them from acquaintance to friend, we tend to limit what we say to them and only tell them little of what we think, but when we are socialising with our close friends the mask comes off and our true self shines. Not Putting on different face depending on who you are interacting with will not protect you from the unpleasantries that truth creates for those who prefer sugar coated responses and will only put you in the limelight awaiting to be cancelled. Some people are terrible at understanding that their choice of words is wrong because they can easily be misinterpreted for an uncaring choice of words, but this is due to the fact that our vocabulary differs from one another and so does our personal interpretation of that word. So, whether you feel comfortable enough in your viewpoint to say exactly what is on your mind when someone's choice of words gets your emotions riled up or you put on a happy face and leave them in the acquaintance basket because some people you will never get along with.

I DONT WANT TO KNOW

The earth continues to rotate eastward and the problems of the world spin within it. No matter your acceptance of the dramas you face the tolerance you have is either able to handle the pressure of the drama or the drama is too much for you to handle which leaves you ignoring the issues at hand. Some people prefer not to know anything which may leave a negative impact on their life where others are comfortable to know everything about a situation because they believe ignorance is not bliss and it is respectful to the ones suffering to not be ignored. Whether you are in a position to assist or not those people who are willing to listen to the good and bad about a situation prefer the truth over a sugar coated one. We all have our own limitations no matter what you think yours is it is up to you to decide if knowing the whole truth disturbs you so much then don't complain if you're cut out of the conversation when the raw truth hits the fan. So if you prefer to know things as they are, then ask the questions that you need to ask, if the truth is too harsh then live your life on the same rotating earth as the rest of the population but with your own spin on it either way the choice is yours. 

JUST FOR NOW

If your core beliefs are constantly changing just to match with the people that you surround yourself with then your structural foundation beliefs will fracture because basing your adopted newfound beliefs purely on fads will mean that you have to keep on reshuffling what you think just to allow for the rules that we abide by to make sense. If you can't support your beliefs Infront of those that you hope to impress because your true beliefs go against what the fads are then you are left following the crowd and losing yourself. Going against what you truly believe in will always end up with you wondering just how you got where you didn't want to be and will follow with you feeling more alone even though you are surrounded by people. It is better to be happy and alone knowing who you are rather then surrounded with people who make you feel more alone than you started staying tight lipped with your beliefs will only add to you feeling confused with the loss of your identity. So, say what you feel before you don't know what you're feeling any more.

I'LL BE THERE, WHEN I BELIEVE

Supporting someone is synonymous with a shared point of view, your views have to align with theirs otherwise your heart wont be in it and your mind won't beable to take the stand. You need to believe that your actions are just otherwise you wont be able to take a stand and back your peers up when it counts, if you feel that you are not on the same page most of the time then you need to find the people who you share similar views with most of the time. Supporting someone when you don't agree with their actions will only distance you from your own values. Where conflict of opinion varies it is your chance to choose the path of segregation from those who hold you back, and find those who you share common ground with. It is with like minded people that peace of mind will be at its strongest. Forcing yourself to constantly change all to suit the minds of the everchanging will only rattle your own foundations. We spend a lifetime trying to figure out who we are it doesn't need to be any more difficult by succumbing to the weaknesses of someone else's mindset. A strong mindset doesn’t need to be like its peers because it is in its own solitary that enables it to understand what makes it tick. The support of others is welcomed but not essential because we don't need the reassurances of others to make us happy. Your happiness lies in the control of your own mind that is why it is essential that we believe solemnly in what we preach and we don't devalue ourselves with actions that go against the way we feel to suit the irrational behaviour of our peers.

THRESHOLD OF LIES

When someone lies to you on a constant basis it is a pattern that will never change unless you change it yourself. How long would you let yourself get disrespected before you choose to stand up for yourself and say that you've had enough? This is a question that we ask ourselves when it starts to feel like we are getting the raw end of a bad deal. No matter how you look at it and justify your reasons for putting up with the bad deal you have to be honest with yourself and acknowledge that if you are repeatedly blatantly lied to then you accept the fact that you are being regularly disrespected and what makes things worse is while that same person is mistreating you they feel very comfortable in confiding in you about their own problems that they are facing. Some people are only focused on themselves and hate it when anyone gives them a taste of their own medicine. The problem is they have convinced themselves that they are a good person even though their actions say otherwise. If you find that you have to justify your actions with lies then you are nowhere near ready to accept that you have only gotten what you deserve. It is up to those that you are disrespecting to leave you in your own mess rather than trying justify your less then normal compassionate behaviour. In the end we all get what we deserve so if you dont like the repercussions of your actions then change what you are comfortably dishing out to others and be the better version of yourself.