BEYOND HELP

It is part of human nature to want to help people when they are in need, even when they are lacking the courage to ask for your help. As much as you would like to help someone all the time that you are able to, sometimes you are limited by your own resourcefulness. Not being resourceful enough may seem to be the biggest hurdle preventing you from solving the issues at hand but it's not the real reason people choose not to help those that are in need. The real reason that people are unwilling to help out our fellow man or woman is because we are all limited by the threshold of patience where we can only do so much for people before we lose ours. We all have our limits and when we see that we are using all that we have to help someone out and they are choosing to ignore our efforts by squandering their life we eventually give up. Once we recognise their patterns of failures we come to terms with the fact that no matter the efforts that we put in to help, some people are beyond help. No matter our level of resourcefulness we are unable to help those that are a glutton for punishment because they live for the drama in their lives and seem to be bored with the steadiness of order. Once we realise that the longer we try to help the unwilling the more likely that their broken down mentality will bring us down to a place where we struggle to stand proud again. So give all you got for them but remember to save a little resilience for yourself for your own sanity.