VICTIMHOOD

We centre ourselves by controlling our emotions so that we don't ever react without the right purpose in mind. We do our best to harness any anger we may have in order to dull our frustrations and increase our own chances of keeping our bearings in check. Without this level of control we are more likely to repeat our mistakes which will strengthen the patterns of our own failures that will eventually lead us to a resentment where the victim stance is the only stand we know. Our victim mentality stands prominently to claim that we are blameless in a world where everything that is done to us is without warrant. This false narrative highlights that we are never at fault no matter what the other side claims. Victimhood is a state of mind where we've taken ourselves out of the equation of what may have lead to us receiving any negative attention and has us now focusing purely on the words "Why is it always me?". Each move we make is motioned by our state of mind where regret has no home because we strongly believe that we are in the right and our emotions are not misguided even though logical thought isn't taken into consideration. Without logical thought we are at the mercy of our emotions and in a place we are vulnerable to the hearsay of the crowd. So if you'd rather take your life out of someone else's hands then you have to start to take responsibility for yours and let your actions dictate your own direction and not the direction of the schemers of the world.