INDEPENDENCE

Growing up we are encouraged by those who care for us to reach for the stars for that they believe that with their guidance and our perseverance we can fulfil our dreams. The guiding process can vary from individual to individual based on how they take to achieving independent behaviour. Motivation plays a big part in guiding them to strive for more but when those who lend a hand are over reaching all this does is condition the reciever to crave the easier pathway where laziness follows. It is through tough times and experience that creates tough people and no amount of help will ever get someone out of a laziness rut that is instilled from a repetitive behaviour of avoidance. Experience is the best teacher so if you want help guide someone to a successful  destination then stop once you have guided them and let them take over their inherited responsibility because one day you will be unavailable and they will suffer from the consequences.