So many of us claim to have many friends but how many of those friends will have your back when it counts. Friends aren't usually put in tough positions where they can stand up for us when someone decides to taint our reputation. So we safely assume that all our friends will stand up for us even if it means someone they know will shut them down. In our social groups we have people that are acquaintances who we can enjoy superficial chatting, friends who we like their company enough to enjoy spending some time with and very few really reliable good friends that we can comfortably say that they are with us not only during the easy good times but also during the difficult tough times. Friends who choose to spend time with when your not always showing your best side understand that life can knock you down and you aren't always going to react the right way but having a good friend to help you through the darkness is part of what makes them a good friend. The Friends that are only by your side when you are entertaining to them will ditch you when your not. So choose your friends wisely otherwise they will disappear the moment the shit hits the fan.
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