OPEN TO CIRCUMSTANCES

It's fair to say that people are not our personal pupets so we can not expect them to do whatever we want, but by the same token some people like to blame their failings on the people who have forced them to make a decision when they weren't ready to make up their mind. You may be able deny your actions by blaming others for the pressure that they put on you, but you should acknowledge that you alone have the power to influence how your day will go based on how intune you are with your own personal problem solving skills. Language and your attitude are such a powerful tool that can influence the choices you have and will lead you to open circumstances.  if you ignore the parameters of your decisions and don't learn to be tactful you might find yourself in a not ideal situation. You are solely responsible on how you react to peoples attempt to manipulate your direction, nobody has the power to get you to do what you have already made up your mind not to do. We are a product of our circumstances, and it is our choices that have lead us to those circumstances so increasing your interaction with people who you don't see eye to eye with you will increase your chances of conflict of beliefs that will lead you to discomfort, the more you you'll find yourself shaking your head with disbelief. The proof that the power to influence your life for the better is in your hands is that if you did the opposite of every decision that you've ever made in your past your more likely to be in a worse state of mind than you currently are because you have gone against what your core beliefs craves which will lead to being unsatisfied. So satisy yourself by being true to your core beliefs. You are what you believe so be you.