SAME WORD USED DIFFERENTLY

Words only have true meaning if they are factual and are based in reality which inturn helps reassure those who are conversing that you are following the conversation and that the points that you are making are not being misconstrued. When the majority of the population agree that the true meaning of a certain word has a universal meaning that goes beyond all cultural differences ignoring its functional side leaves the unrelenting few  grasping at only whats left which is the irrational thought process that is hard to support because it is based on feelings while true meaning is based on reality and how it connects to the truth. The world would be simpler if it was based on multiple truths because then there would be no need to compromise our beliefs but the harsh facts of life are based on a universal truth which is connected to all of us whether we take part or deny in its existence their is no changing what is fact. If you base you beliefs on something that is not real you will have a hard awakening when the truth hits you like a brick so stop sweeping your issues under the rug and deal with the truths infront of you before your left looking dumbfounded by the questions you can't answer.

LOOKING LIKE IT, DOESN'T MAKE YOU IT

Sometimes someone admires someone so much that they will do anything to be exactly like the one that they admire but all they know about that particular person is what they see on a superficial level. What a person looks is only a small part of who they are and how they choose to represent themselves is not always interpreted in the way that they themselves intended it to, alot of their true character is lost in your translation of them. Twins may share alot of similarities but that doesn't mean that they feel the same inside, so trying to mimic someones appearance just to make you feel closer to them doesn't change that you still are the same person underneath. In life you must accept yourself as you are but if you dont like something about yourself it's okay to look to others for inspiration for qualities that you admire, as long as it is not at the detriment of losing yourself.  Its easy to make judgements based on a lack of information when your trying to compare your life to those you admire but you need to remember that the grass always looks greener from a far. Falling in the trap of needing the approval of others just to justify your insecurities will have you feeling on edge all the time so let the inspiration of others guide you not control you. Generally speaking we look for patterns in the things we focus on so that we can find common ground this is to better understand how we as people work and what motivates us to do what we do this doesn't mean every single instance has to be the same for everyone, it just means that when it counts most that we are more alike than different which is not as bad as people make it to be as if they feel they have to be different to stand out. So don't lose yourself in doubting your part in the grand scheme of things we are all important even if we don't fit the mould, just make sure that what motivates you is real not rushed.

I'LL DO ANYTHING

It's easy to say you will do anything when your trying to prove your point but when the time comes to honour your claims it's not as easy as you thought it should of been. The bigger the claim the more your not likely to follow through because most people stick with what they are most comfortable doing and to go against the grain is especially hard when it means they have to steer away from their long term habits of trying to avoid the challenges of life by choosing the most simplest path. Tough times make for tough people so if you always choosing the simplest path not because its the right thing to do but because it's easier you will only hurt yourself in the long run when you are forced to face the fact that there will be a time where both paths you choose will both lead to difficult times ahead. The only way to stay true to your claims is to do what is right all of the time because easy path or difficult path you can be proud that you've always been a person of your word and with the trust that you've earned its easier to see that your claims are honourable. So rather than having high claims that go against your normal character be the person that you claim to be from the start and no one will ever doubt you. 

GENERALLY IM GOOD

Sometimes the frustrations people face get them to react in a way that's out of their normal character this is where the stress of the day has driven them out of what is considered rational behaviour and into the anything goes mentality. We all have moments of weakness in our character that drives us to do the opposite of what we would normally do all because we are in pain, feeling tired, overly hungry or just the stresses of the day are far too much for us to handle calmly, nobody is infallible we all have our vulnerabilities because we are all only human. Sometimes peoples irrational uncontrolled anger towards someone is set in stone and no amount of conversation will get them to see that their overreaction to their chosen rival is not justified. At this point its only about being triumphant in their attempts to prove that they are right in feeling the hostility towards their chosen victim, this is so they can rationalise their choice of action. Without rationalising their actions they would be forced to face the harsh reality that they are not as nice as they claim to be. With their built up frustrations they will even use innocent bystanders as a target just to prove a point that they are treating everyone the same because just to show that they have no bias and for anyone and to claim that they have been mistreated  is untrue. No matter the strategies people use to hide their true intentions their general actions when they are in their most relaxed state of mind will show their true intentions because their guard is down so the show to be nice isn't under the microscope, but when you have to modify your standard behaviour its because something you were doing showed your true motives good or bad. We are creatures of habit so what do your habits say about you?

ITS NOT THAT LOGICAL

When we have to make a decision that most likely will affect our life but we are stuck at crossroads alot of conflicting thoughts can go through our mind when we are trying to figure out what is the better path to choose?. While facing the crossroads dilemma, logical thought is relied on more than ever because its logical thought that helps us priorities the importance of our options by taking all considerations and then evaluating them to make the right choices. Whereas when we let desire lead our decisions our desires may lead us astray for that our desires are only focused on our ever changing mood and our desires doesn't normally take in consideration how the radical behaviour may affect others. What is considered logical to someone is illogical to someone else so our logic is based on what makes sense to us as individuals. If most people in a community shared the same logical views it would make sense to say that the communities chosen path is the most rational? It seems that our focus has now shifted from what makes sense and is rational to please the minority radical mindset which complies of the mentality what is right for me and me alone is the correct view and the only view that should be considered important so change all of your views for me,  this one sided view has the majority of people wondering is logical thought a thing of the past? Logic is tied to boundaries without boundaries in your life you have no way of recognising what your doing is right or wrong in the eyes of the people you surround yourself with. If what you desire was your only motivator it would lead us to a world that was full of over confident students unable to take in anything that wasn't about them, without competent teachers to guide them that taking in all considerations when trying to make choices that makes sense for the majority of the community should be an easy choice. Without logical thought their is only chaos where the lessons we've learnt in the past are ignored which will more than likely mean that we are doomed to repeat them. It is through trial and error that we've achieved our progessive development in the community by recognising patterns in the similarities which allow us to organise groups because of their unique similarities that we are able to tend to them by focusing on their collective interests all so we can create order in the system, this is now seen as the wrong way because the generic labels aren't inclusive. Language has helped us find common ground in our similarities and by creating groups which it may not be a perfect system but that doesn't mean it's broken, it just needs to be fine tuned not thrown out. It is impossible to please everyone so logical thought tells us to please as many as you can without tipping the balance otherwise you'll be wondering how did we get to a place where we have lost our logic system and replaced it with chaos.

IF I CANT SEE IT, IM SAFE

The world can be a very scary place to live in and it is natural for some people to take the easier path when trying to handle their fears rather than face their fears head on. To remain in a pieceful state of mind some people prefer shutting their eyes to some of the atrocities that could affect their own mental state of mind. Shutting their eyes to what's happening around the world might make them feel safer in the moment because their belief system relys on out of sight out of mind to help them when the situation gets too hard for their mind to process, but what would of bothered them in the present is still happening in the world with just fewer people accepting that the problems are real. So if you've chosen to ignore a problem you will only do yourself a injustice because without your voice having any impact on what may bother you, your choice to not speak has left others with the power do the talikg for you. Standing up when it's time to speak shows the victims that you acknowledge the injustice that they have faced and you admire their bravery to tell their story so your only right choice is to show them the respect that they deserve is by acknowledging that their suffering is never ignored. Hardships are not to be ignored but respected for that it was great strength in their perseverance that they have mustered up in their darkest moments that got them to the other side.

KIDS OF TODAY

As time passes on and people evolve so does their thought process change to the current times, what used to be considered a normal thought process in the past is now shunned by the people in the present with the added saying "leave the old ways of thinking in the past because we now know a much better way to do things for the people of today". This kind of thinking prevents people from using the worlds past experiences as insightful lessons to help build upon the already solid foundations that were put in place to encourage solidarity in the community by rewarding hard work and perseverance. Those who were willing to stick through the difficult challenges would reap the rewards and benefit from their due diligence to succeed rather than today's generation of the privileged who just give up on things the moment they get hard. The kids of today dont like to be reminded of the past where life was harder because the advantages that they have grown up with now is considered to be normal so why mention what is now a normal part of life to them for that their lifestyle does not stand out to be special compared to any of their friends. The past is no longer seen as an opportunity to learn a lesson from because by choosing to willingly ignore the past they secure their own ideal thoughts and the new times ahead will give them better opportunities without the need of guidance from the past. The mistakes of today's parents is that they believe if they give more to their kids that their kids would appreciate their sacrifices and then their kids will strive to show their parents that they know that they are lucky to have the opportunities that have and that's why they will do all that they can to show their appreciation with their successes. Generally people only appreciate what they have if they are able to connect the dots of the worlds past difficulties to the advantages of their lifestyle, otherwise they will take their privileged lifestyle for granted. So it is our responsibility to condition good behaviour so that they'll appreciate the commitment that it takes to do the right thing and stop rewarding those who take their privileged lifestyle for granted.

OPEN TO REFLECT

As we get older and we find ourselves reflecting back on our past decisions the thoughts bouncing back at us either leave us feeling positive because of our achievements or leave us feeling negative with a build up of regret for what we have never achieved. Accepting that we alone are responsible for where we end up because of what we've chosen to priorities in our life is the first step of dealing with our misfortunes which then gives us an opportunity to take a step away from blaming others for us not reaching our intended goals. Accepting our role empowers us to make the right decisions to get our life back on track where we would prefer to be. Realising that bad choices that we've made has lead our life to a place where our time is now limited to remedy. Time constraints now force you to think harder than you have ever before about what is the right thing to do but with the added thought will you be happy with where your choices lead you. Time is the most important commodity how you choose to spend your time on this earth will be remembered by your family and friends. So do yourself proud by leaving a positive impact with those with whom you interact with otherwise don't be surprised by the few people who will raise a hand to help you at your time of need. If you only think of yourself then be prepared for a lonely life where companionship is limited to acquaintances who are bored with very few options. Or be someone who someone will make you their priority, the choice is yours and so are the consequences.

STAND BY YOUR CLAIM

People project themselves confidently to show others that they know who they are and that they know what they stand for, but are they willing to stand by their claims. The confidence that they show others is designed to take away any doubts that non-believers might have against any of their claims. They believe if they say anything untrue it will be camouflaged by the confidence in their lies so no one will see any reason to doubt the person that they're claiming to be. Whether or not their charismatic behaviour is enough to distract the audience from whats really happening it is only short-lived because their lies can only carry them so far. If you claim to be this person that you are clearly not you actions will unhinge the truth of your claims so when your actions are contradictory to your claims you begin to look the fool that you think that your not. So if you think that you are the real deal then there is no need to have to talk yourself up because people will see it. But if you have to blow your own horn maybe there is a part of you that believes that if you think it with all your might then maybe others will see that you are everything you claim to be.

TAKE IN MIND

The advice we give directs people to a suggested pathway but doing so what are our true motives when we give the advice that steers the willing to partake?, is the advice pure of heart with only positive intentions? Or is the advice set in malice?. If the advice you've given steers people to a troublesome situation was your advice bad or was it how your advice was handled thereafter that caused the issues that came to play?. It all depends on the intent of the advice given, is the advice tainted by personal preferences or was the person's interests taken in hand?. Like the relevance of the saying "You can lead a horse to water but you can't force it to drink" rings true when you are trying to show people that there are plentiful opportunities that is there for the taking but wondering why they choose not to take advantage of what seems to be an obvious choice to make. Is it better to choose the untravelled path that may heighten their success or should we really be focused on what is it that the recipient truly wants?. Is your personal happiness guided by your wants the right way to enhance your happiness or is what looks like the right choice the better choice because it is a different path from the one your use to?. We are at our most happiest when our desires are met even at its most simplest form. Easier isn't always better when you are suitable for a type of skill set that works well within the parameters of threshold that works to support your self happiness. It is better to be you than a version that is perfect on the outside but miserable on inside, so be true and be you.