BLAME GAME

Life's problems are so much easier to avoid solving if you play the blame game because nothing wrong is ever going to be your fault therefore it is not your responsibility to fix any of the problems that you are now facing. This may be true when you are young and limited by your options but blaming someone for your current misfortunes doesn't carry much weight when you are old enough to make your own decisions in life. There comes a time in your life that you must accept that the past should only remain as a lesson learnt and is not what solely defines who you are now. It is the choices that you make on a day to day basis that emphasize the person that you are, that is why you should always remember that what you choose to do in the now has the power to change the direction your life is heading so choose wisely. We can not change our past but we can change what we choose to focus on in our present, so stop blaming someone else for where you are lacking and start focusing on where you want to be in your life because you will only ever get there with a little resilience and a lot less complaining. Those who aren't happy with their past and are only fixated on what went wrong in the past will never come close to reaching their goals. So think forward and keep on moving because time doesn't wait for anyone especially for the complainers of the world.