CHASING THE MOLD

Growing up we all go through stages of self development where we make choices that we believe will help give us a desired result. The results helps us discover who we are as individuals and identifies our  motivations, this basic tactic is our way of figuring out what we like and what we would rather never expierience again. This basic tactic is more miss than hit in our adolescents but with wisdom gained with age we hopefully fine tune the system. Sometimes when we feel someone we admire has achieved what we desire we place them in high regard and place them on a pedestal as though they are the type of person we most want to be like. This so called desired mold we believe will lead us to the standard of happiness that we crave, but at what cost?, Are we willing to sacrifice our own individuality in the pursuit of happiness?. Chasing to fit the mold seems that your expectations are solely based on your chosen idol as to boldly claim that their life is the ultimate result, but the grass isn't always greener when you've become your idol. You should perfect yourself not mirror someone else's shadow.  Being grounded in your own lifestyle is much more real and satisfying then losing yourself in someone else's.