HEAD IN THE SAND

Life can feel taxing when the stresses of the world take control over you. This is why it is very important that when you are prioritizing your goals that you should be focusing on trying to resolve today's problems rather than focusing on your distant future where you will still have time to plan ahead. If you ignore your current situation at hand, then your concerns will only stack higher and higher and build up at an incredible rate where it becomes harder and harder to deal with, which may manifest into anxiety. None of your so called problems will go away without being dealt with in the proper manner that is why you should not rush through the issues when considering your options and only move forward when you are ready to deal with the next problem. We all have our own personal limitations, and this will be heightened if we are distracted by the possible stresses that come when you are unprepared. It takes strength to tackle the issues you face head-on, and it also builds resilience when you are disciplined. So, rather than avoiding the challenges in front of you, broaden yourself by keeping an open mind to your own suffering and trying to develop the tough moments into positive character building qualities. This development will help remove your head from the sand and help you experience life in its entirety.

FAILED TO COMMUNICATE

We have become a people that struggle to communicate with one another all because we have made up our minds before we have even started the conversation. No matter what someone else claims we are already giving our views and shrugging off any of the valid points that they may be making, purely because our version of the truth doesn't sit well with their claims. There may be varied versions of what we believe is true based on our own personal beliefs but there is only one truth which is coincides with the facts of the world. The phrase "winners write the history books" quoted by Napoleon Bonaparte, can be interpreted as "I say its true so it is" this doesn't make it the truth though. If our own perception was enough to make a statement truth then the people of the world can not  blame anyone for doing wrong because in their belief system it was right because it benefited them, it doesn't matter how their actions mat have affected someone else. Truth is what holds society above water otherwise we will drown in the ever changing lies that are told to us. So the best thing you can do is listen to more opinions and formulate truth with the facts that surround you rather than jump to the easier pathway that will eventually lead you to a place where you will feel more lost than ever.

I RESENT THAT REMARK

No amount of effort can rid you of the negative thoughts and feelings you hold onto when you have chosen to leave resentment into your soul. All logic is pushed aside  because of what you believe is the better alternative to letting go of your growing frustrations and the handicaps that a negative mindset brings you. Allowing yourself to be ruled by your resentment in order to punish someone for whatever you believe that they have done to you only hurts you in the long run. When resentment rules over your emotions, even the ones that have your own best intentions in mind, all because your jealousy has gotten the better of you, it is a quick step backwards in bettering yourself. So if you want to be the best version of yourself, then spend your energy doing what will excel your mind, not damper your mindset. Positive energy makes you feel good and gets you closer to reaching your desires. Don't lose yourself in a jealous rivalry that will only hold you back from growing into the person that you are capable of being. Remember one bad decision is not enough to hold you down but repeatedly making bad decisions after bad decisions will only give you more to apologise for, so be good so you don't have to feel bad all the time.

THE BLAME GAME

Life's problems are so much easier to avoid solving if you play the blame game because nothing wrong is ever going to be your fault therefore it is not your responsibility to fix any of the problems that you are now facing. This may be true when you are young and limited by your options but blaming someone for your current misfortunes doesn't carry much weight when you are old enough to make your own decisions in life. There comes a time in your life that you must accept that the past should only remain as a lesson learnt and is not what solely defines who you are now. It is the choices that you make on a day to day basis that emphasize the person that you are, that is why you should always remember that what you choose to do in the now has the power to change the direction your life is heading so choose wisely. We can not change our past but we can change what we choose to focus on in our present, so stop blaming someone else for where you are lacking and start focusing on where you want to be in your life because you will only ever get there with a little resilience and a lot less complaining. Those who aren't happy with their past and are only fixated on what went wrong in the past will never come close to reaching their goals. So think forward and keep on moving because time doesn't wait for anyone especially for the complainers of the world.