IS CHIVALRY DEAD?

Is chivalry dead ? and if it is what killed it ? These are the questions that tell a story of repetitive negative reinforcement. I believe it's negative mixed messages that have berated and conditioned those who have attempted to be chivalrous to stop and rethink before they offend the unintended so called victim. In the past what seemed like common courtesy was simply opening the door for someone, but now it shows some people that they are incapable of opening the door for themselves when really they are incapable of accepting assistance which makes themselves feel weak. Is it a weakness to not accept assistance or a show of strength? Does it matter who the person is holding the door open? Or are we just ready to show people we are strong and very capable so we don't need anything from anyone.