RULES FOR SOME

When following the rules your path is directed to what a governed bodys preferences are. Whether you choose to abide by the rules or try to follow them as close as your dignity will allow your choices can concrete how you are perceived by others. Some of us believe it doesn't matter how you get to the end as long as the result is the same, while others believe their path is paved with challenges that are pronounced because they chose to allow their morals get in the way of following the rules that lay in front of them. Choosing a pathway that only has your best interests at heart will teach others the pattens of your selfish behaviour which will eventually create a mirrored response when they decide to treat you the same way that youve been treating them. You may not believe in karma but it will be proven to be true in the actions of others when they respond to you. Most people will stop treating you better than you treat them because it becomes harder to justify their actions in a rational state of mind.

PREGNANCY DURING COVID

Hi my name is Teresa and for a long time I have wanted to have a family of my own but finding the right person to start a family with has been a challenge. So I have decided that I will do this on my own but with covid looming over our heads it has given me concern to rethink my decision. So i am asking help from anyone who has experience with pregnancy during these tough times. Any advice will be appreciated. 

IRREPLACEABLE YOU

We like to believe that we are uniquely different which makes us feel that we are irreplaceable. Even though we try and create a positive impact to someone's life what we give is hard to measure when comparing the differences of our positive impact to those who are there to replace us. We live our life wanting to be treated with the respect we deserve which usually entails putting our values on the line and leaves us open for criticism. Being vulnerable only takes affect if you let the criticism take over you. If you are confident with who you are you don't need the approval of everyone to keep your integrity intact just those who you admire and respect. We are all replaceable but that doesn't mean that we won't be missed by those we have left a huge impact on. So be yourself even if it means you have ostracised yourself from the rest of society. Your circle of friends will stick with you through thick and thin and that is all that matters. 

MAINSTREAM MEDIA VERSUS ALTERNATIVE MEDIA

I keep on hearing the misconception that main stream media is one sided pushing its opinion on its viewers and that alternative media always offers a raw view untainted from reality of whats happening in the now without personal bias and judgement. Whether it's mainstream or alternative media both are edited news platforms pushing a narrative and both still have an agenda because there is no such thing as an opinion without bias. We make our opinions based on own bias, whether we make it based on the little information we see or we make our opinion on what we didn't see its our own wants and needs that is steered by our own bias. It is impossible to get the whole picture because we can't be involved in every part of the situation so we have to rely on the little information we get which usually involves us digging deep from within our own personal experience and using our wits to work out what is the closest truth and make a judgement call that we use to back up with our own bias opinion. Those who get manipulated by false news let themselves be manipulated because it is their defence mechanism that protects them from making their own mind up and then they can blame those who pushed them on the wrong track because they were misinformed. 

WIKIPEDIA TOLD ME SO

Frustrations are felt and shared by so many, whether you have a small business, or your out of a job the current situation can be frustrating for all of us who've been affected by covid. At the top of the frustrated list would have to be nurses and doctors who's job is to help the community stay in better health even though some of the community are fighting with the government and believe that health devision is going against their interest. When you lose your faith in doctors and the health system you may as well put your faith in someone who is practicing medicine without a licence. Most people will listen to those who have studied a profession that they themselves know nothing about rather than relying on your own research on Wikipedia.

DONT LOOK, BUT LISTEN

Whether or not you like the person or group speaking if you ignore who is speaking because of your feelings towards the speaker you may miss out on the validity of the point being made. If you listened to what was said would your opinion change or does it matter more to you who is speaking than what information they are trying to relay. A bad person can still make a good point. You don't have to respect who they are to see merit in what they say. You need to be bigger than your emotions to grow with the wisdom you may be missing.