PASSION TO MOVE

Life without purpose can feel pointless when your trying to figure out what your place in the world is. Everyday can feel like a repeat of the day that just past unless you set yourself some goals. Whether its the achievable short term goals that you put in place in order to encourage you to commit yourself or the long term goals that require you to persevere through the tough and challenging times ahead of you, goals are a must to break your learned bad habits. Goals push you to want more for yourself without them you are left following the same monotonous pathway that will only lead you to a dead end where your  dreams go to die. In life we must have something that moves us to keep us striving for more otherwise we are left without wanting anything better for ourselves and happy to be unhappy remaining stagnant where our purpose remains unfulfilled. So remember time waits for nobody so heed the warning and chase your purpose before it is lost.

NO PEACE WHEN VIOLENCE RULES

There will never be peace in a world where violence is the only language people understand. Peace needs to be the common ground that we all should strive to reach, rather than what seems to be a commonly made mistake by a lot of people is to focus only on our differences which will only lead to an unhealthy segregation in your body,mind and soul. Seeing people's differences as wrong all because we don't understand them will build up dislike which eventually grows into a hate, then all you are left with if is having a broken mindset where you have lost your morals in the gutter where it is nearly impossible to pick yourself up again. Our high morals help dictate our choice of actions which will lead us to what is right, for that once you do what's right you'd have done your part to reach peace. So we should keep our morals high and be guided by our intentions to strive for peace because  peace should be the norm not violence. There will never be peace if the world stays ignorant to the stupid that surrounds us all. If we wait for the violence to end than it will end us we need to be smarter than the stupid people that hold us back. Education should teach us all about each others cultural differences and also our similarities so that we recognise that that we are part of the same race just with unique differences. If we choose to bow to our weaknesses and fight with each other than it is like we are fighting with a part of ourselves, the part of ourselves that is too weak to strive for peace.

WE ARE THE WORLD

Personality should be the most important consideration when deciding if you want to let someone into your circle of friends not their nationality. Sharing the same nationality may help you when cultural similarities are high on your priority list but this is only a small part of who you really are and should never be the be all and end all in deciding who you should  associate with. That is why it is important that other things should be considered also when determining who should be a part of your circle of friends, like do you share similar interests with them or do you consider that person a good enough person that you would want to get to know better. There is so much more to us than just our cultural beliefs and because of this how are we ever meant to connect to one another purely on our cultural beliefs if we cant relate to them on any other level. If we all had the mindset that the human race should stand together no matter where their descendants may have started from then the prejudices that will hold us back from mingling with those from a different country will be removed and the only borders that will remain will be the ones that we put in place to divide us from those out there who will do us  harm. So judge the individual not the group so that you don't shut yourself away from the deserving all to make space for those who lived near you and shared your  cultural beliefs but never agreed with your values or your personal views. .

THE POWER OF HOPE

Hope is a powerful tool which has the power to encourage us to look past our current state of misfortunes and persevere through the pitfalls that hold us back from pursuing any of our desired goals. Without hope we are lost, stuck in a place where depression sets in with the intention to drown out our dreams of possible success by filling us up with the fear of adamant failure. The fear of failure is instilled into our brain with a predominantly negative lesson in mind "If we don't ever try then we never ever failed",but this lesson will only ever take if our fear of failure outweighs our desire to want more for ourselves. This is why it is important to have a strong mind that understands that you only ever fail when you decide to give up, every failed attempt is a lesson that can steer you closer in the right direction. The one mantra that we should keep in mind is nothing worthwhile is easy to attain. So try and try again and learn from your mistakes because you never know what is around the corner. 

TO TRUST OR NOT TO TRUST

Trust far too easily given hardly deserved seems to fit the consensus of the people, but how many of those people that are willing to give someone their trust are left with only regret. It is normal to want to trust people because we can only ever feel safe when we do allow ourselves to let go of our fear and let someone into our comfort zone, but at what cost?. The more we are open and honest the more we are vulnerable of getting hurt that is why we should choose our friends wisely because they will have your back when it truly counts. The moment we have made up our mind of who we can call a friend the less likely we are to question any of their motives as time goes by because by questioning them we are doubting our own ability to choose the right person to call your friend. If those we call friends don't remain consistent as friends should pretending that its all okay will only hurt you in the long run. We may think that giving up on them would mean we've wasted a whole lot of time but it more likely will save the time that's ahead of you. Our inaction to react to their bad behaviour will eventually find ourselves challenging our own moral compass because we will end up justying their actions with "They are my friend and friends have each others backs no matter what". Our bond make us ignore the signs of being taken advantage of and forces us to ignore thier repetitive mistakes by making our own. The best thing for you is to be true to yourself where your values and morals will stay intact otherwise you will set yourself up for a ride where your integrity will decline with your sanity. So trust only the trustworthy and leave the rest to their own destructive devices and you will be far better off because you owe it to yourself. 

FORCED CONVERSATION

Conversation like most things needs to flow naturally because if we let ourselves be lead into a conversation that we have no opinion on then it becomes a one sided conversation. Some people fall in the trap of forcing a conversation even when they clearly have nothing to say on the topic because they believe that saying anything is better than saying nothing at all. All this does is highlight your lack of knowledge on the topic and your inability to add anything meaningful to the conversation because what little you've added is insincere with little to no thought going into it. Sometimes it is better to give no input and just listen because you can learn alot more by listening than you can by interrupting with a forced comment that you've prepared earlier. Conversation needs to be sincere to matter otherwise you may as well be talking about the weather. You can only build a solid foundation of friendship if you are honest with what comes out of your mouth, otherwise you will have to backtrack on your claims. People will only respect you and what you say if you show them an equal amount of respect, so speak the truth and try to listen without interrupting with things that you don't really feel or you might just find yourself fitting into a crowd that you dont want to even be a part of.

THE INVISIBLE MAN

We are so much more than what we show others on the surface and unless someone takes the time to get to know you properly then they will only ever see you in a two dimensional way. The more time we spend having an honest open dialogue with our peers the more evident our beliefs are and the more it shows others that we will stand by our words even at the cost of offending people with alternative view points. So whether it is your true intentions to mystify people with your colourful lies that don't exactly correlate with your beliefs in order to stay in green with those that you admire or you've chosen to be courageous by standing by your views even at the cost of being placed in the red and under a microscope to be criticised for not following the mob. Your choice will either have you changing your views regularly based on what's trending at the time or you'll choose the path that is true to who you really are by showing others that you walk your own path no matter of the consequences. We all want to be liked but Is it better to be liked for who we are ? rather than changing who we are just to be liked, the choice is yours and yours alone.

CAMOUFLAGE EXPOSED

Those of you who prefer to spend your free time in hiding your true intentions in order to camouflage your bias ways feel like utter failures when your foxy ways to manipulate others are exposed. The harder you try to convince others that your crossing of pathways is just a serendipitous moment which has now given you the opportunity to make your bold claims doesn't fool the people that are familiar with your true intentions. Your planned response only comes across as a failed rehearsal that you have orchestrated in your distorted mind. We are all creatures of habit and the moment you change your patterns of behaviour you only highlight that you had planned to be deceitful with a smirk that highlights your true intentions. It is no coincidence that you are face to face with the person that you happen to have a preset conversation with where you can try to make your points stick whether their relevant or not. So rather than being disappointed for someone seeing through the farce and seeing your true negative side maybe you should focus on the side of you that you would prefer to be seen because that is the side of you that you feel you are most of the time. We all have the potential of being ugly so let's try being beautiful people by showing the side of us that we strive to show our peers.

RESPECT THE WAY YOU THINK

We all like to believe that we are good people with good intentions at heart but for this to be true we must have a good value system. How many of us can say that we can stand by our beliefs without the need of camouflaging our truth? If your personal views come out will you shy away from them by pretending that you never had that thought in your mind? or Would you stand proud by your views even if it makes you unpopular with the masses?. There was a time when integrity stood on the top of people's motivation to do the right thing because as people who welcome the respect of others we all know that the quickest way to earn the respect of others is to be a man or woman of your word. Honesty is the key that will help bind us to a free world where truth matters and where it can sometimes be difficult to know who we should admire for their honesty and who we should avoid for their lies. One very important thing we should ask ourselves is can you respect someone who has a poor value system and if so then ask yourself what is it about their personal value system that you respect?

FIND ME FALLING

"Finding Me Falling" is a must watch movie for anyone craving to be entertained for one hour and thirty three minutes with immersive acting and a engaging story which is bound to keep you captivated till the credits roll this movie should definitely be on your radar. FIND ME FALLING is sure to surprise you with twists and turns which helps it stand out from other romantic comedys that follow suit. John (Harry Connick Jnr)life's happy moments and woes carry through the screen to make you feel that you are right there experiencing his tough choices and sorried outcomes. This movie is not only just for those who enjoy comedy romance movies but for anyone who enjoys a well balanced movie that is written and directed incredibly well. This movie will definitely satisfy your thirst for entertainment so get up and switch on your Netflix so you too can enjoy the two thumbs way up movie FIND ME FALLING.