TO TRUST OR NOT TO TRUST

Trust far too easily given hardly deserved seems to fit the consensus of the people, but how many of those people that are willing to give someone their trust are left with only regret. It is normal to want to trust people because we can only ever feel safe when we do allow ourselves to let go of our fear and let someone into our comfort zone, but at what cost?. The more we are open and honest the more we are vulnerable of getting hurt that is why we should choose our friends wisely because they will have your back when it truly counts. The moment we have made up our mind of who we can call a friend the less likely we are to question any of their motives as time goes by because by questioning them we are doubting our own ability to choose the right person to call your friend. If those we call friends don't remain consistent as friends should pretending that its all okay will only hurt you in the long run. We may think that giving up on them would mean we've wasted a whole lot of time but it more likely will save the time that's ahead of you. Our inaction to react to their bad behaviour will eventually find ourselves challenging our own moral compass because we will end up justying their actions with "They are my friend and friends have each others backs no matter what". Our bond make us ignore the signs of being taken advantage of and forces us to ignore thier repetitive mistakes by making our own. The best thing for you is to be true to yourself where your values and morals will stay intact otherwise you will set yourself up for a ride where your integrity will decline with your sanity. So trust only the trustworthy and leave the rest to their own destructive devices and you will be far better off because you owe it to yourself.