When someone lies to you on a constant basis it is a pattern that will never change unless you change it yourself. How long would you let yourself get disrespected before you choose to stand up for yourself and say that you've had enough? This is a question that we ask ourselves when it starts to feel like we are getting the raw end of a bad deal. No matter how you look at it and justify your reasons for putting up with the bad deal you have to be honest with yourself and acknowledge that if you are repeatedly blatantly lied to then you accept the fact that you are being regularly disrespected and what makes things worse is while that same person is mistreating you they feel very comfortable in confiding in you about their own problems that they are facing. Some people are only focused on themselves and hate it when anyone gives them a taste of their own medicine. The problem is they have convinced themselves that they are a good person even though their actions say otherwise. If you find that you have to justify your actions with lies then you are nowhere near ready to accept that you have only gotten what you deserve. It is up to those that you are disrespecting to leave you in your own mess rather than trying justify your less then normal compassionate behaviour. In the end we all get what we deserve so if you dont like the repercussions of your actions then change what you are comfortably dishing out to others and be the better version of yourself.
