Supporting someone is synonymous with a shared point of view, your views have to align with theirs otherwise your heart wont be in it and your mind won't beable to take the stand. You need to believe that your actions are just otherwise you wont be able to take a stand and back your peers up when it counts, if you feel that you are not on the same page most of the time then you need to find the people who you share similar views with most of the time. Supporting someone when you don't agree with their actions will only distance you from your own values. Where conflict of opinion varies it is your chance to choose the path of segregation from those who hold you back, and find those who you share common ground with. It is with like minded people that peace of mind will be at its strongest. Forcing yourself to constantly change all to suit the minds of the everchanging will only rattle your own foundations. We spend a lifetime trying to figure out who we are it doesn't need to be any more difficult by succumbing to the weaknesses of someone else's mindset. A strong mindset doesn’t need to be like its peers because it is in its own solitary that enables it to understand what makes it tick. The support of others is welcomed but not essential because we don't need the reassurances of others to make us happy. Your happiness lies in the control of your own mind that is why it is essential that we believe solemnly in what we preach and we don't devalue ourselves with actions that go against the way we feel to suit the irrational behaviour of our peers.
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