I've raised my sons alone from when they have been very young, and have worked two jobs trying to make ends meet. Now close to retirement I've now told my kids that i can longer support them with the extra cash that i have given them here and there. But now i find that they're not calling as much or visiting me. It saddens me that all that i have given them and all that i have done for them that they haven't appreciated it.
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Giving your kids everything isn't going to teach them that there are some things in life that you can't have in life. If your kids come to see you only when they want something then you have conditioned them in that you will support them even when you should of let them clean up their own mess. Tough love is the answer but whether it will work now all depends on time.
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